Honestly, when you are in a good place with one another is a great time to get support for your relationship. One of my main goals as a counselor is to help change the way people think and feel about counseling. I want individuals and couples to take a proactive approach to their mental and relationship health instead of a reactive one. Why? Just like the physical body, it is easier and often quicker to heal from an illness or injury when your body and immune system are healthy. Getting plenty Continue Reading
How To See Brokenness As An Opportunity Of Growth
Often, we focus on and worry about our deficiencies or the things that are not going well in our lives especially in our relationships. The mind then translates the situation as something is not right, or something is wrong. The natural response is to do something to fix it, or we start the disengaging process to eventually separation. This uneasiness is an uncomfortable place to be in, and the feelings associated with the situation are not welcomed. I read The Girlfriends in God devotions, Continue Reading
How to make your relationship more exciting?
I attended one of my friend’s mother’s 80-something birthday a few years ago. She was beautifully dressed in her red fitted dress dancing around and greeting her guests. I asked her what advice she could give me because I definitely wanted to be like her if I was blessed to live that long? She told me to never forget the little girl inside of me and let her come out and play. When I think about keeping the spark in relationships, I am reminded of that conversation of not forgetting the little Continue Reading
